Friday Legal Updates™ - Lesbian Custody Disputes & Sperm Donor Anonymity

Surrogacy Issues  - Well, we have had a quiet week - thank goodness!  Especially after all the negative press last month regarding surrogacy.  We do have a few issues to ponder, so here it is:

California - Santa Cruz court to hear custody hearing on former lesbian partners' dispute over twins.  The sticking point in this case is that the sperm donor is now acting as the father, living with the biological, lesbian partner, and they are now a couple themselves.  Currently, the judge has granted temporary visitation to the other partner until the hearing takes place. 

Vermont - Contempt Hearing Scheduled in Lesbian Custody Battle.  Another lesbian custody case has come to a head due to one former partner failing to exchange custody fo the child as ordered by the court. 

"Many of those who are opposed to this custody exchange have used a series of arguments ranging from the argument that Isabella Miller is the biological daughter of Lisa Miller to arguments how Janet Jenkins is a stranger to Isabella Miller. Unfortunately for them, the law recognizes the rights of non-biological parents. Many men use sperm donors and women use egg donors and they are considered to be the parents of children conceived within any marriage or union that takes place even if they are not biologically related. In a case in California, a woman made the argument that her ex-husband was not the biological father of their child, and that meant that he had no rights with regards to the child. The courts found otherwise, and ultimately granted the ex-husband sole custody of the child after the woman followed the same course of action as Lisa Miller. As for the stranger argument, Janet Jenkins is the mother of Isabella by virtue of the civil union, and is only a stranger to Isabella since Lisa Miller has done her best to prevent any and all contact between Isabella Miller and Janet Jenkins."

Sad story for all involved regardless of anyone's sexual orientation. 

Worldwide - Sperm Donor Anonymity - A hospital in Delftzijl has won its legal battle to keep the name of a sperm donor secret from the lesbian couple who had a baby using his sperm.    The couple had gone to court to get the donor's details after their child was born with dark skin - they had chosen a white donor. 

"The hospital suspects the sperm may have come from an Aruban man who was in the hospital withh is wife for an artificial insemination programme. Officials have offered to contact this couple on behalf of the two women.

Groningen court rejected the women's appeal for information, saying they should first take the hospital up on this offer."

Try and have a dry weekend everyone!

Lesbians, Utah & Surrogacy Plus Prop 8 Fight Is Televised

Good morning....wanted to update everyone on the televised proceeding for Prop 8 here as follows: http://www.equalrightsfoundation.org/live-updates/

In addition, a surprising admission by a Utah lawmaker.  She is carrying a child for a gay couple as a traditional surrogate

Rep. Christine Johnson will serve an additional role when the Utah Legislature convenes this month. The lesbian lawmaker announced she's a surrogate mother, carrying a baby for two gay men.

Johnson, D-Salt Lake City, said she decided to become artificially impregnated with sperm from one of the men after the two close friends expressed frustration over the difficulty of adopting a child.

Utah law prohibits unmarried couples from adopting and does not recognize gay marriage.

Johnson, 41, who has a 17-year-old daughter from a two-year marriage, is four months pregnant and expecting on June 21.

"I can very much empathize with their desire to become parents and share their lives with and open their hearts to a child," Johnson told the Salt Lake Tribune. "I'm immeasurably grateful to be a mother."

Johnson offered to be a surrogate at no cost to save the Salt Lake County men the prohibitive cost of hiring one - as much as $100,000.

What a nice story about a family and a politician who is not worried about her choices, good ones I may add, affecting her chances at re-election. 

Mission: Family and the American Fertility Association

I know that there are many organizations out there giving patient education in the area of family building for singles and couples, including the LGBT community, surrogacy, IVF, egg donation and sperm donation, but I have to toot my horn for the American Fertility Association.  And, I want you to help this organization by donating to our cause (I say our cause, as I must provide full disclosure that I am a board member) BUT by not donating any of your own money.  Yes, you can help by donating Capital One's money - just sign up for a card, and they do the rest. 

The benefits to The AFA are as follows:

1 - Capital One gives The AFA $25 for everyone who signs up for the card, upon the first use. 

2 - Capital One gives The AFA 1% of all purchases on all AFA-branded cards.

 

It is easy to sign up:

 

https://www.cardlabconnect.com/AffinityPortal/visitorAction.do?affinityName=missionfamily

 

Now, that was easy!

 

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Mission: Family and the American Fertility Association

I know that there are many organizations out there giving patient education in the area of family building for singles and couples, including the LGBT community, surrogacy, IVF, egg donation and sperm donation, but I have to toot my horn for the American Fertility Association.  And, I want you to help this organization by donating to our cause (I say our cause, as I must provide full disclosure that I am a board member) BUT by not donating any of your own money.  Yes, you can help by donating Capital One's money - just sign up for a card, and they do the rest. 

The benefits to The AFA are as follows:

1 - Capital One gives The AFA $25 for everyone who signs up for the card, upon the first use. 

2 - Capital One gives The AFA 1% of all purchases on all AFA-branded cards.

 

It is easy to sign up:

 

https://www.cardlabconnect.com/AffinityPortal/visitorAction.do?affinityName=missionfamily

 

Now, that was easy!

 

Subscribe to my blog at: http://www.surrogacyeggdonorblog.com/subscribe.html