Follow Up to Why Not Adopt & the Vulnerability of Surrogacy Patients

Just wanted to give another great resource to those who are dealing with the issue of "Why Not Just Adopt."  Please listen to Dawn's radio blog post found here:

Listen to Creating a Family: Talk About Infertility and Adoption

Now, onto another issue that keeps coming up, which is called the "Surrogacy Racket."   Two articles were just posted today regarding the vulnerability of patients/clients and how they can be taken advantage of in so many ways.  My point is to be patient and educate yourself completely before you jump into any sort of journey, especially when it comes to creating your family - whether it be adoption, IVF, egg/sperm donation and/or surrogacy.

Here is a portion of one of the articles:

"It’s­ am­az­ing­l­y eas­y to­ fo­o­l­ infertil­e c­o­up­l­es­ - es­p­ec­ial­l­y tho­s­e w­ho­ are
d­esper­a­t­e , a­nd­ a­r­e clut­ch­ing a­t­ st­r­a­ws
. A­n excellent­ exa­m­ple is wh­a­t­ so­m­e IV­F clinics in Ind­ia­ wh­o­ o­ffer­ sur­r­o­ga­cy d­o­.

Even­­ t­hough t­hese cl­i­n­­i­cs kn­­ow t­ha­t­ t­here i­s n­­o l­ega­l­ met­hod of­ a­l­l­owi­n­­g t­he coupl­e t­o t­a­ke t­he ba­by­ a­f­t­er bi­rt­h wi­t­h t­hem out­ of­ I­n­­di­a­ ( beca­use I­n­­di­a­n­­ l­a­w on­­l­y­ recogn­­i­ses t­he bi­rt­h mot­her, whose n­­a­me must­ go on­­ t­he chi­l­d’s bi­rt­h cert­i­f­i­ca­t­e, whi­ch i­s a­ l­ega­l­ documen­­t­), t­hey­ use t­he ga­rb of­ t­he ” I­CMR gui­del­i­n­­es” ( whi­ch ha­ve n­­o l­ega­l­ va­l­i­di­t­y­ wha­t­soever) t­o put­ t­he i­n­­t­en­­ded pa­ren­­t­’s ( t­he i­n­­f­ert­i­l­e coupl­e’s) n­­a­me on­­ t­he chi­l­d’s bi­rt­h cert­i­f­i­ca­t­e. Whi­l­e on­­e ma­y­ just­i­f­y­ doi­n­­g t­hi­s f­or va­ri­ous rea­son­­s, t­he f­a­ct­ rema­i­n­­s t­ha­t­ t­he t­rut­h i­s bei­n­­g di­st­ort­ed out­ of­ sha­pe - a­n­­d on­­ce y­ou a­re wi­l­l­i­n­­g t­o do t­hi­s, i­t­’s very­ ea­sy­ t­o con­­t­i­n­­ue t­he di­st­ort­i­on­­ even­­ f­urt­her. T­hi­s i­s why­ t­hese cl­i­n­­i­cs ref­use t­o a­l­l­ow t­he surroga­t­e t­o gi­ve i­n­­t­ervi­ews t­o t­he medi­a­ ."

But, remember, that this applies to surrogacy in any area - India, Ukraine, or even the United States.  Also, look at the Stirrup Queens Blog, which has a great post today on emotional fraud, which I think also applies. 

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Why Don't You Just Adopt? Why even consider Surrogacy, Egg Donation, or IVF?

I have been reading alot of blogging regarding this question of "why not just adopt?", inlcuding several articles in well-known magazines questioning why anyone would choose surrogacy, egg donation or IVF over adoption.  But, we all know that it is not that simple.  And, what I really want people to do is think before you ask such questions.  Take your own life experience and personalisms out of the equation - instead, spend a moment to "walk in their shoes."  Literally. 

I suggest that you read "So You're Infertile, Why Not Just Adopt?" by Dawn Davenport.  I also suggest STRONGLY that you also read all of the comments listed by her participants.  Very enlightening, and it may help you when you are speaking to others about your journey.

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New York Judge Allows Biological Mom to Adopt Own Son

Via Associated Press:

Adoption gives woman 'full and unassailable' parental rights, judge says

NEW YORK — A judge in New York City has granted the adoption petition of a woman whose egg was implanted in her domestic partner and resulted in the birth of a son.

Surrogate Court Judge Kristin Booth Glen says she is convinced that the woman, identified only as Mona A., is already the legal parent of the 15-month-old boy.

But in her ruling on Friday, April 10, the judge said the adoption will give Mona A. her “full and unassailable” parental rights.

The women, Mona A. and Ingrid A., got married in the Netherlands in 2004 after being together 11 years. The judge says that while the Netherlands marriage is recognized by New York state, the legal adoption will ensure Mona’s rights throughout the United States.

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Surrogacy Case Reopens Need for Education of Intended Parents

When I read about a case such as the one below, it reopens the need for education of Intended Parents (and their surrogates) by experienced legal counsel.   Why did this Intended Parent think that this situation would work out for him in Indiana?  Was he aware of the risks?  Did he know that there were other options in other more appropriate venues, such as California? 

Well, either way, make certain that you "look before you leap," and you obtain legal counsel that can tell you of the risks and rewards of working in certain states.  I can only hope for the best for this father and his daughters.

Ruling revives controversy over twins' placement - by Jon Murray in Indiana

"The blond, blue-eyed twin girls who started life in an Indianapolis intensive care unit could hardly have known they would become the focus of a years-long interstate adoption battle.

As they took their first steps and reached other milestones under the care of the only father they have known, Indiana child welfare officials challenged the legality of their adoption.

Last week, on the twins' fourth birthday, the Indiana Supreme Court issued a ruling that threw their family into limbo by reversing the final adoption decree and ordering a new review.

Karen Zaria and Kathy Zee Melinger again are stuck in uncertainty rooted in an adoption that legal experts say should never have been granted to Stephen Melinger. The New Jersey man enlisted Monrovia attorney Steve Litz, and his company, Surrogate Mothers Inc., to arrange a surrogate mother from South Carolina."

Good luck to this family!

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Friday Legal Updates - Sperm, Gay Marriage, Adoption Reversal, Italy & IVF

Can you believe that it is Friday already?  TGIF!  Some new developments on the legal landcape regarding IVF, adoption, sperm, equality, etc.  There is also a link to updates on Surrogenesis for those interested in keeping updated. 

Vermont – Vermont legalizes Gay marriage after voting to override the Governor’s veto, making it the first state to do so through legislation...

Indiana – The Indiana Supreme Court makes a controversial reversal…could your surrogacy borne child be next?

Texas – Mother says son would have wanted her to harvest his sperm…what are your thoughts?

United States – Sperm and the law…could your sperm bank be liable?

Tennessee – Following Equality Bills around the country.

Georgia – Embryo donation is already legal; this decision could make the adoption of these embryos also legal in the state.

Italy – Top court slightly relaxes their previously strict regulations on artificial procreation…not as relaxed as the media would have you believe.  

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Madonna, Adoption & Reproductive Choice

I was originally going to stay out of this story, but I have become intrigued by how this story has been handled by the media and those with their differing opinions.  I actually feel sorry for Madonna as she is being dragged over the coals - a thought that is actually surprising for me, as I normally would never feel sorry for her in any way.  I do agree, however, with alot of the critics regarding the choice of country where there are no laws regarding adoption and the fact that her son David's father is alive in the country.  Angelina Jolie has been very vocal about this particular issue.

I think that I am most surprised that people are attacking her for adopting a child outside of the US.  Since when are we restricted by some moral code that we cannot adopt outside of our own country?  I understand that there are laws that are in place, and she should not be treated any differently; however, what is the real issue in adopting outside of the US?  I would love to hear from those of that opinion so that I can better understand the reasoning.

I am also concerned about the limits that people are suggesting that could eventually end with restricting our reproductive choice (aka IVF, adoption, etc.).  What are your thoughts?

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Israel - Decision is a First to Allow Gay Couple to Adopt Child

March 10, 2009 - According to Global Legal Monitor and the Global New Service of the Jewish People, the Tel Aviv family court approved a request by a gay couple, who had married in Toronto in 2004, to adopt a foster son they had raised for over 14 years, even though he has already reached the age of majority. The decision is the first to recognize the right of a same-sex male couple to adopt. In October 2005, Israel's Supreme Court authorized the adoption by a lesbian couple of each other's biological children.

In accordance with a previous, binding decision of the Supreme Court, adoption of adults may be authorized for special reasons. The family court held that a special child-parent relationship, mutual love, and care have existed for many years between the adoptee and the requesters, former Knesset (Parliament) Member Uzi Even and his life partner, Dr. Amit Kama. The adoptee changed his last name to a combination of the two last names of the requestors. The court granted the adoption decree and ordered the Ministry of the Interior to register it. According to the press, the adoption request was lodged after Tel Aviv University refused to give the couple's foster son a tuition discount reserved for children of faculty members.

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FRIDAY LEGAL UPATES - Wisconsin Adoption, Georgia Right to Life Group, Missouri Donor Legislation, North Dakota Egg Legislation, Hawaii Civil Union, Indian Surrogacy Update, Australian Twins & ESHRE

Well, welcome to our Friday Legal Updates (TGIF).  We have quite a bit of news out there from this week, so enjoy each one, and please comment to your heart’s desire.

Wisconsin – Woman Charged with Unauthorized Adoption.  A Missouri woman faces a felony child abduction charge in Wisconsin where she's accused of buying a baby from a couple for $6,000.   There was a criminal complaint filed Thursday stating that 36-year-old Denise Novotny of Clinton, MO, received the infant shortly after she was born at Aurora Medical Center in Hartford in December 2004.  The complaint also alleges that Novotny had the couple sign a surrogate birth contract to disguise the crime.   This sounds like adoptions being disguised as a surrogacy is a trend for circumventing the laws of adoption.  We need to be wary of this and be on alert for this situation in our own practices.

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Georgia – The Georgia Right to Life Introduces Legislation to Protect the Mother and Child.  Georgia Right to Life today announced the filing of the Ethical Treatment of Human Embryos act in the Georgia Senate SB-169.  Their argument is that the recent birth of the octuplets to the woman in Southern California demands government oversight of the fertility industry, according to this group. 

“This industry is one of the most lucrative medical fields and among the least regulated. In response to this need, Georgia State Senator Ralph Hudgens along with other co-sponsors in the Senate leadership have introduced legislation that will place limits on the creation and transfer of embryos produced by In vitro fertilization (IVF).

‘This bill is written to help reduce the attendant harm that could come to the mother and her children through the creation and implantation of more embryos than is medically recommended by industry watchdog groups like the Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology’ says Daniel Becker, President of Georgia Right to Life.

‘This bill would limit the number of embryos transferred in any given cycle to the same number that are fertilized, up to a maximum of three. This bill is similar to the same common-sense regulations passed in other countries such as the United Kingdom, Germany and Italy’ said Becker.

Georgia is the first state in the nation to file this legislation. However, in Britain they have similar legislation, passed in 2004, that protects the embryo and the mother from these harmful practices.

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The language of the bill-SB 169

North Dakota – North Dakota House Gives Fertilized Egg Full Rights. News just out of North Dakota - we have a bill pending that intends to give a fertilized human egg the legal rights of a human being.  It appears that the intention is to put a complete ban on abortion in that state.  However, based on the field that I am in, I am concerned what it will do to the infertile couple/person with embryos frozen in that state.  What are your thoughts after reading below?

“BISMARCK, N.D. — A measure approved by the North Dakota House gives a fertilized human egg the legal rights of a human being, a step that would essentially ban abortion in the state.

The bill is a direct challenge to Roe v. Wade, the U.S. Supreme Court decision that extended abortion rights nationwide, supporters of the legislation said.

Representatives voted 51-41 to approve the measure Tuesday. It now moves to the North Dakota Senate for its review.

The bill declares that “any organism with the genome of homo sapiens” is a person protected by rights granted by the North Dakota Constitution and state laws.

The measure’s sponsor, Rep. Dan Ruby, R-Minot, said the legislation did not automatically ban abortion. Ruby has introduced bills in previous sessions of the Legislature to prohibit abortion in North Dakota.

“This language is not as aggressive as the direct ban legislation that I’ve proposed in the past,” Ruby said during House floor debate on Tuesday. “This is very simply defining when life begins, and giving that life some protections under our Constitution - the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”

Critics of the measure say it will cost millions of dollars to defend. Ruby said the state has been willing to go to bat for other principles that were less important.

In Oklahoma, meanwhile, a state House committee Tuesday approved legislation that would prohibit physicians from performing abortions solely on account of the gender of a woman’s fetus, even though the measure’s author said there is no evidence the practice has ever occurred in the state.

The legislation passed 20-2 by the House Public Health Committee. The bill now goes to the full House for consideration.

The author of the bill, Rep. Dan Sullivan, R-Tulsa, said it is designed to stop couples from using the gender of a fetus as a reason to get an abortion. Sullivan said a doctor would be prohibited from performing an abortion if the mother specifically said the fetus’ sex was the reason.

However, he said there is no evidence the practice has occurred in Oklahoma. “I haven’t received any definite information that proves it,” Sullivan said.”

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Missouri – Sounds to me like the states are responding in great numbers to the advancements in reproductive technologies and now the octuplet controversy, which I vow not to address in today’s updates.  However, I did post this last week, but I am reposting again in light of the other states to follow.

It appears that the Missouri legislature, headed by Cynthia Davis.  In her bill (HB355) she is attempting to ban all anonymous donation (egg and sperm) in Missouri and give all donor-conceived offspring the right to access the donor’s identity at age 21.   In fact, she wants the child’s birth certificate reflect the biological parent’s name (yes, she called the donor a parent) and the donor parent’s name as well.  She is not intending to create any legal relationship between donors and the offspring, but the use of the word PARENT is extremely disturbing.  What do you think?

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Blog On Bill HB355 

Hawaii – Civil Unions in Hawaii.  Hawaii’s House passed a civil union bill this month by a vote of 33-15. 

"The bill, which now moves to the state Senate, would grant partners in civil unions the same benefits, protections and responsibilities as married couples under state law. The state would also recognize civil unions, domestic partnerships and same-sex marriages performed in other states. Partners in civil unions would not have the same protections as married couples under federal law, so the recognition is a rung below treating homosexual and heterosexual couples equally."

According to the Honolulu Advertiser, "The lawmaker who missed the vote, state Rep. K. Mark Takai, D-34th (Newtown, Waiau, Pearl City), who is preparing to deploy with the Hawai'i Army National Guard to Kuwait, supports civil unions."

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Other Article on www.Proudparenting.com

Australia – Lesbians Win Damages for Second Child – yes, you heard it right.  A lesbian couple have won the right to be compensated by their IVF Physician for the wrongful birth of one of their twins.  The woman gave birth to healthy non-identical twin girls in July of 2004, and the couple had sought $348,000.00 in damages for the cost of raising one of the girls.  The court papers state that the woman had told the doctor to implant only one embryo; however, two embryos were implanted.  Their intital case had been rejected by the courts, but was overturned on appeal with the court granting damages of $317,000.00 plus fees, which includes fees for a private Steiner school.

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India – Surrogacy is No Business, It’s a Need: Experts.  With reproductive tourism exploding, I like to keep people alert to the dangers of going to countries where the laws are not yet in place.  If you think California is the wild west, think again, as that is not the case.  But, if you are going to India, buyer beware!

"Surrogacy is not a business, it arises out of need. It gives women an opportunity to make a bright future for themselves and for others," R S Sharma, deputy director, Indian Council Medical Research (ICMR) said at a seminar held at the ILS Law College on Wednesday.

The ILS Law college conducted this seminar chiefly to identify the loopholes in the proposed Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) (regulation) Bill and suggest changes.

Sharma presented the draft bill on the issue title Assisted Reproductive Technology (regulation) Bill, 2008'. In India, there is no law to regulate surrogacy and the government now wants to fill this void to avoid exploitation of the parties involved. Following this, a 15-member committee, including experts from ICMR, Ministry of Health and specialists in the field, prepared this bill and will table it before the Lok Sabha in the ensuing session.

"It is incorrect to label surrogacy as a business. Both parties involved are benefited and is undertaken only after they arrive at a mutual consensus. Take for instance this case where the wife decided to become a surrogate because she needed money for her husband's treatment. Also, the family was so financially weak that they were not being able to make their ends meet. After opting for surrogacy, she was not only able to get her husband treated, but also spent on her children's education. Would you call this a business?" Sharma questioned the audience.

As a result of the increasing demand for various types of ARTs, infertility clinics too have mushroomed indiscriminately across the nation. In the absence of national registry of ART clinics, there is no reliable information available on their number.

Sanjay Gupte, director, Centre for Research in Reproduction, who was also present at the seminar, said, "It is often said that doctors make good profit from surrogacy in India. However, very few talk of the drug companies that sell infertility drugs and make money. They (the companies) are, in fact, the ones who are promoting malpractices in the system. We need strict laws to bind such companies, this in turn will help control the number of ART clinics."

Sunita Tadulwalkar, in-charge of the IVF Clinic at Ruby Hall, said, "This was the most awaited bill as the number of ART clinics has increased significantly over the past five years. The bill will definitely improve the quality of treatment. However, I also see that the bill does not mention insurance. There is a lot of risk involved in this process and insurance companies flatly refuse to pay for infertility treatments."

Students of the ILS Law College identified loopholes in the bill, particularly with respect to the status and rights of children born out of such process.

 

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ESHRE NEWS – The European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology in their January 2009 publication gave an update on their project involving the status of donor anonymity and embryo research.  The picture emerging so far is mixed, from countries such as Belgium, Italy, Norway, Denmark, France, Germany, Greece, Protugal, Russia, Spain and the UK, though most countries favor anonymous sperm donation.  The exceptions are Germany (where egg donation is not allowed, but sperm donation is), Norway and UK, which all give children conceived by donor sperm the right at the age of 18 to know the donor’s identity.  Women in Russia and so far Belgium can be treated by known and anonymous sperm donation. No gamete donation is allowed in Italy.  More details can be found on the ESHRE website at www.eshre.com.

 

 

Theresa M. Erickson, Esq.
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Supreme Court of West Virginia considering same-sex adoption by Lesbian Couple

The Supreme Court of the State of West Virginia is considering whether an infant placed with a lesbian couple after she was born to a drug addicted mother shall remain with the couple, according to West Virginia Metro News.   The Department of Health and Human Services did approve the couple for foster care, but the trial court judge wanted the child to be removed from the home in order to provide her a more "traditional" home with a mother and father.

I would like to hear everyone's view on this case and what the end result should be.  Currently, WV state law does allow singles and heterosexual married couples to adopt in WV.  In fact, one of the women in this case has actually successfully adopted another child. 

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